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Click to give it a spin! A lot of women use this tool as a way of dealing with their own paranoia. If no suspicious activity pops up on the tool, you can relax into your relationship free from fear. I understand the whole point of punishment and discipline may seem lost if you have to ask permission every time, but there is a way around that.
You can do it the Christian Grey way and draw up a written agreement with provision to withdraw consent at any point. Or you can do it verbally. The most important thing is that you give him the opportunity to either accept or decline the offer. Everything from your posturing to your language has to exude confidence and demand respect from your boyfriend.
So just work on your attitude, and ease into the role. Let him give you a title that really drives home the fact that you are the one calling the shots, and his primary role right then is to observe and obey.
Or just because you feel like, remember, you are in charge. Usually, men who like to be dominated in the bedroom do not mind, scratch that, they love to relinquish control to their master. So if you deem it fit to deny him the freedom of beating his meat when he wants, then so be it. No matter how committed your boyfriend is to the game, there are bound to be slip-ups. There will be days when he mistakenly calls you by your name instead of addressing you as your chosen title during playtime.
Simply mete out an appropriate punishment so he knows the rules are not just a suggestion. For instance, if he breaks your masturbation ban, use tortuous pleasure to give him what he deserves. Let him watch as you touch yourself with his hands tied behind his back. You can build up some heat by using him as your personal servant while focusing on something else.
To take the humiliation up a notch, have him strip down to his underpants or, better yet, his birthday suit while he fetches you drinks or rubs your feet. This gets both of you mentally prepared to continue your roles, and the view of his naked glory is an added advantage for you.
There is no fun in doing the same thing over and over again. To keep him on his toes and keep things interesting for you, try and switch things up after a couple of sessions. Whether or not to tell him beforehand is your prerogative, as long as you still respect his boundaries and have safe words in place. If sex with your boyfriend has always been something that happens when both of you are in the mood, that has to change. You can order him to complete some tasks, then have a steamy session afterward as a reward.
Use denial to get him on his best behavior. You can literally have him eating out of your hands or any other place you desire if you play your cards well. It is called delayed gratification in psychology, the sexual aficionados call it edging, but you can call it whatever you want. So you basically tease him by whatever means you deem fit, probably even sex, and let him build almost to the point of climax, then stop. So when your man takes the initiative — without breaking any of your rules — a pat on the back is still very much in your favor, nothing too sweet though.
You may be wondering how realistic it is to balance a regular relationship with a kinky role-reversing lifestyle. Like how does someone go from being a loving girlfriend to commanding your man to strip down to his birthday suit and put your big toe in his mouth? The simple answer is to draw a line. For Christian Grey, it meant changing into his red room pair of jeans; for others, it means breaking out the collar. You too can pick a select outfit that would al to your man its time to serve. Or condition him — like a pet — with a tone that would serve the same purpose.
Roleplaying is the OG of kinky sex. Whether or not you are this type of person, roleplaying can add a great deal of variety to your sex life. The possibilities are as vast as your imagination. You can just pick from your ready-made pool of fantasies, and you are set. If you are committed enough to it, you can go as far as using props, and setting the scenes to really bring your characters to life.
When you choose to tell him is your prerogative, although it is advisable to inform him beforehand in case he needs time to prepare. Another way to show your boyfriend who is the boss is by assuming sex positions that give you total control. If he is used to taking you, muscle memory might make him want to take the lead again by increasing or reducing the pace, do not let him. Few women have the chance of putting their pleasure before their partners without being judged for it, but you do because again, he is obligated to please you.
So, take full advantage, and ride that man six ways to Sunday at any pace and position of your choosing. The idea is not to stay in one place, as I implied earlier, the thrilling kind of reduces when it becomes monotonous and predictable. So do your homework and explore tons of other means of punishment until you reach his or your red line. Relinquishing total control of yourself to another person is not a decision one makes lightly, and you run more than just the risk of ruining sex for him if you misuse it.
You can break him altogether. If your partner is the one that initiates sex all the time, an excellent way to spoil him in bed would be to start things. You can go a little further by doing the sexual activities he enjoys the most without him needing to request it or initiate it. You also have to make them desire to have you by telling them how much you want them. Pamper yourself and talk about your plans without including him. This act will make him think of the possibilities of a life without you. If you enjoyed reading this half as much as I loved writing it, my heart is full.
That said, please let me know what you think in the comment section and share the article with anyone you think deserves to see it. HerNorm is a community-supported website. We may earn a small commission on purchases made through our links. Learn more. Get consent 1. Talk about it 1. Establish dominance 1. Pick a title 1. Forbid him from pleasing himself without your permission 1. Set the punishment 1. Make him serve you in next to nothing 1. Explore his limits 1. Make him earn sex 1. Control his release 1. Encourage him when he does something right 1. Have a dedicated playtime outfit 1.
Explore roleplay 1. Play out your fantasies 1. Assume dominant sex positions 1. Try a different form of punishment 1. How do I punish my boyfriend for taking me for granted? How do I spoil my boyfriend sexually? How do I make my partner scream in bed? Why do people want to be punished?
How do I make him worry about losing me? Related Content. Sonya Schwartz. A hopeless romantic that struggled for many years to find her Mr "Right" and made all the mistakes you could think of while dating. Known for always choosing the wrong guys or messing up relationships, Sonya was finally able to change her approach and mindset when it came to dating which helped her eventually find the man of her dreams and become happily married.
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