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You and your boyfriend have gone your separate ways, but you still love him and want him back. How can you know if he has? You need to take the full context into consideration. The faster he gets into a new relationship, the more likely he misses you and is trying to deal with his pain. Being in a new relationship will plug up all his emotional voids and help him forget you.
At the same time, he gets to feel desirable, manly, connected. He basically has an escape from dealing with his own thoughts and emotions. Now, this is a tough line to argue with. You can make a case for any other breakup line he feeds you except for this one. What is there to say? All warmth seems to have left the building. When you talk to him now, he seems like a cold stranger who wants nothing to do with you. Men can compartmentalize very well, and what he may be doing is putting his feelings for you in a box and sealing it shut as a self-protective measure.
But like I said, context is key. You need to take this into along with all the other s combined. This is likely if you cheated on him or betrayed him in some ificant way. He might just need more time to deal. The best thing to do is just give him space—you being there and trying to make it better or trying to apologize or trying to get him to be emotionally responsive to you will just make everything worse. You never hear from him anymore. He may be pleasantly responsive, but he never makes the first move.
The biggest advice we give to anyone going through a breakup is to follow the no contact rule for a period of at least four weeks more on this later in the article. The no contact rule can be used to either get your ex back or to enable you to fully move on after a breakup. Either way, you end up in a better, happier place. Does it mean all hope is lost?
Unfriending or unfollowing someone on social media feels strangely permanent even though you can re-follow with just one quick click. There may still be a lingering attraction and desire, and so you flirt. Or, as I mentioned earlier, he may be compartmentalizing to make being without you easier on him and to help him get over you, or he may still be angry and not flirting is his way of being cold. Context is key.
He may not have moved to get away from you—maybe he just graduated, maybe he got a new job, or maybe he wants to live in a warmer climate. Long-distance relationships are hard enough even when things are going well. It takes time to fall in love, and it takes time to fully fall out of love. He has strong emotional reactions when it comes to you.
He contacts you even if you asked him not to. He tries to make you jealous. New pictures are of him having the time of his life, or surrounded by girls. This is an obvious plea for a reaction out of you. He runs hot and cold with you. This ties into him being emotionally all over the place and having intense feelings about you. Did it feel light and effortless? Or strained and filled with tension and like I was always forcing things to work? What are the real reasons, not just the surface reason s?
You must engage in a period of no contact for at least four weeks, also known as the no contact rule. It is as it sounds, you do not contact your ex via any channel, and you do not reply if he contacts you. The no-contact period will give you a lot of clarity and you will probably discover exactly where you stand with your ex. Should you reach out to him?
What should you say? Want to find out if you can get your ex back? I love writing relatable, insightful articles that help people understand relationship dynamics and how to get the love they want. I have a degree in psychology and have spent the last 10 years interviewing countless men and reading and studying as much as I can to better understand human psychology and how men operate.
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