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Times have changed, ladies, and with it, the best dating tips and advice. We're embarking on new kinds of relationships as a newer type of woman. But even as all the traditional dating rules change, should the way we think about having sex on the date change, too? How soon is too soon — or is it okay to have sex on first dates if you feel like that's what you want to do?
To get the guys' perspective, we asked the men in our lives to dish on when they think it's appropriate to do the deed for the first time, and their answers, well, they might surprise you. So without further ado, here are responses from men we know personally when asked about what men honestly think about sleeping together — or more specifically, about having sex — on the first date:.
As a guy, there's something about being with someone who's so carefree — and it's something you feel immediately, so yes, sex on the first night is okay I don't feel like having sex on the first night will challenge, or compromise, what happens afterward. Just speaking from personal experience. I'm not trying to be a jerk, but I don't want to take home a good girl on the first night.
I think it would ruin my chances with her. So getting it on should be our decision; and well, if we both want it and are clear about our feelings, then I don't see the point in putting sex off until the second or third date," admits Josh, The guys I spoke to who were okay with holding out for a few dates really surprised me. Their answers were candid, honest, and they proved that though the times, they are a-changin', there's definitely still something to be said about passion, patience, and keeping it in your pants until the clock strikes hot.
When she didn't, I was pleasantly surprised, despite what I'd originally banked on. I realized that I wanted to wait for it, too — and the harder she was willing to make me work for it, the more attracted to her I was," Ethan, 29, says. I don't think it means you're easy if you want to have sex on the first date or even after the first night, but I'm way more attracted to a woman who knows how rare it is to have something to look forward to.
Everything we do is geared toward instant gratification. I don't mean that after having sex I think of girls in a way like, ' What else do you have to offer? But it's really nice to have time to get to know someone and put some room in between deciding to ask them on a second date and deciding between missionary and doggy," says Tony, Then, she asked for my and hailed a cab, leaving me in the dust.
I was caught so off guard — I kinda thought that was the kind of thing you only saw in movies — but I couldn't stop thinking about her all night. The next day, when she texted me, I was that much more interested in her. It was unexpected but totally awesome to have to wait on someone else for once," Madison, 26, says. Okay, fine, some of us really do, but the majority of us are just saying that we do. We don't. We want the waiting period, the getting-to-know-you period.
We want to take you to overpriced dinners and then complain about it behind your back. We want you to keep denying us, because it's sexy, until you're ready. At least," Sam, 29, said, "I do. If I sleep with you on the first night, that's awesome, but I'm never really going to see you as much more than that. You'll be the girl that gave it up the first time we met.
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